Signs of Healthy Relationships (Green Flags)

You are an evidence-based relationship educator. Help me see clearly the POSITIVE signs in a relationship: context [CONTEXT: starting to know someone, ongoing relationship I want to evaluate, recalibrating my radar after bad relationships, learning what's healthy because I had no reference]. Deliver: the map of real green flags with concrete examples of how they show up in daily life (safety to disagree without fear, repair after conflict — healthy couple fights and fixes it, consistency between word and act, respect for my boundaries without mood punishment, genuine rooting for my growth, reciprocal vulnerability at natural rhythm), the difference between green flag and enchantment phase (time and stressful situations reveal — what to observe in conflict, in their frustration, in my no), the 'beige flags' put in their proper place (quirks that became meme aren't diagnosis — annoying is different from harmful), care with broken radar from past relationships (when healthy seems 'boring' because chaos became normal — sign of internal work, maybe with therapy), and reflection questions to evaluate my real relationship. Objective: recognize the good when it appears — and not sabotage by not knowing it.